39 Weeks bumpdate

Welp, here we go again…

Just got out of my prenatal appointment and the doctor confirmed again through an ultrasound that this little brat has turned once again! Back into the breech position smh. C-section is scheduled for this Thursday, 7/11 at 9am.

We also have the hospital tour scheduled for today at 6pm.

Fun fact: I’ve always told my friends and family that I’ll be delivering him on 7/11, because I’ve always craved for the 7/11 slurpee and taquitos.

38 Weeks bumpdate

Great news! Doctor confirmed through an ultrasound this morning at my prenatal follow up appointment that my baby has turned! Woohoo! His head is finally down, so that means I could be going into labor any day now. Although due date isn’t until 7/14. My scheduled c-section is now canceled, VBAC (vaginal birth after cesarean) it is. Keeping my fingers crossed for this one! 🤞🏽

I really hope and pray that this VBAC goes through. I’m really not looking forward to staying in the hospital for 3-4 nights if I have a c-section.

Think big, dream bigger, set goals and make it happen.

  • High achievers review their goals regularly.

Write down you goals and review them regularly. Determine your passion and values and use those to set your big goals and projects for the year.

  • Get clear and act with purpose

It all starts with living your life intentionally—and to do that, you need to be very clear on what you want.

  • Translate your ideas into actions

Ideas are a dime a dozen. People who implement them are priceless.

  • Learn to use ‘activation energy’ to get you started

Activation energy is the amount of effort required for you to get up and do a particular task. The lower the effort, the more likely you are to do it. Achieving anything in life is a series of small steps. Activation energy gets you started. The momentum it generates keeps you going. You take one step, then the next, and the next again, and before you know it you’re on our way!

  • Be productive, not busy

Time is precious, and you want to fill it with tasks that make a meaningful difference instead of busywork. It’s important to set out your intentions and goals for the year ahead, and define a practical action plan.

  • Feed your mind

How we think has a huge impact on how we act, and how we grow as people. Get inspired and empowered. Focus on persistence, determination, confidence, resilience, courage, success, and all the qualities you need to make your dreams happen! Be inspired to become confident, passionate, determined, creative, innovative and kind.

  • Stay motivated

It’s one thing to have goals, but quite another to remain motivated and on track through the rollercoaster ride it takes to achieve them.

  • Feel great

When you’re feeling great, your work reflects it!

Alone in delivery room..

So my baby’s father and I aren’t together. I’ve moved out since I was 2 months pregnant. Don’t want to get into why but I get nightmares when he even texts me. I thought being single and pregnant would be terribly lonely but it’s actually been great. I’ve been enjoying this whole pregnancy in peace. I am scheduled for a c-section next week, Tuesday 7/9 @ 12:30, so I’m not worried about labor at all. But I don’t want to be alone. Since my family is not close by, I had no choice but to ask him to drop me off. Now the big question is, is he going to stay for the birth of his child?

He has been to just 2 appointments but even then doesn’t seem like he cares like as if I obligated him to do so. He doesn’t ask or check up about the baby. I got all my necessities for the baby myself or from the baby shower & I’ve honestly done everything myself. I don’t know why I still want him to be involved even tho he doesn’t care but I’m conflicted. I don’t know wether I want him to be there during labor because I grew hate for him, I feel like he doesn’t deserve to be there and I feel like he will just stress me out. However I don’t want to wrong for my son.. any opinions?

Weak men.

Weak men cheat
Weak men lie
Weak men make no effort
Weak men cause confusion
Weak men deserve none of you
Or anything you have to offer
Weak men will read this and be offended
Weak men will read this and never change
Stay away from weak men
Do not waste your strength on a man too weak to love you